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	<title>Comments on: Why parents should think before they advise&#8230;</title>
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	<description>Surviving the past one day at a time</description>
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		<title>By: Old Midhurstian</title>
		<link>http://www.oldmidhurstian.co.uk/2010/02/18/why-parents-should-think-before-they-advise/comment-page-1/#comment-387</link>
		<dc:creator>Old Midhurstian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 21:28:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Scottie
I guess you could call it a sort of dull angry ache now. I doubt that I&#039;ll ever entirely reconcile these things but actually putting them in writing does help

Love
Mac</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Scottie<br />
I guess you could call it a sort of dull angry ache now. I doubt that I&#8217;ll ever entirely reconcile these things but actually putting them in writing does help</p>
<p>Love<br />
Mac</p>
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		<title>By: Scottie</title>
		<link>http://www.oldmidhurstian.co.uk/2010/02/18/why-parents-should-think-before-they-advise/comment-page-1/#comment-386</link>
		<dc:creator>Scottie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 21:23:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mac, it is a measure of the life you had at the time, that in the heat of the moment you were prepared to not release your hold.  I hope that rage has released its hold on you.  That is a hard heavy burden to carry.

Sorry you had to relive that time of your life and all it means.

Best wishes and warm hugs,
Scottie</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mac, it is a measure of the life you had at the time, that in the heat of the moment you were prepared to not release your hold.  I hope that rage has released its hold on you.  That is a hard heavy burden to carry.</p>
<p>Sorry you had to relive that time of your life and all it means.</p>
<p>Best wishes and warm hugs,<br />
Scottie</p>
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		<title>By: Old Midhurstian</title>
		<link>http://www.oldmidhurstian.co.uk/2010/02/18/why-parents-should-think-before-they-advise/comment-page-1/#comment-385</link>
		<dc:creator>Old Midhurstian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 19:37:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes it can, Daniel and It&#039;s good to know that your boys are in a school that at least tries to combat bullying. The problem, as you rightly say, is that these little bastards know how to cover themselves and it&#039;s always the victim that ends up in trouble.

Love
Malcolm</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes it can, Daniel and It&#8217;s good to know that your boys are in a school that at least tries to combat bullying. The problem, as you rightly say, is that these little bastards know how to cover themselves and it&#8217;s always the victim that ends up in trouble.</p>
<p>Love<br />
Malcolm</p>
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		<title>By: Daniel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daniel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 19:31:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>School can be a horrible place, for kids the first taste of hell on earth. I&#039;m so glad my kids schools are active in stopping bullying, whatever they know of that&#039;ll say. But of course it takes a certain level for school staff to notice what&#039;s going on... and kids aren&#039;t stupid. They know how to disguise their actions. 

Love
Daniel</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>School can be a horrible place, for kids the first taste of hell on earth. I&#8217;m so glad my kids schools are active in stopping bullying, whatever they know of that&#8217;ll say. But of course it takes a certain level for school staff to notice what&#8217;s going on&#8230; and kids aren&#8217;t stupid. They know how to disguise their actions. </p>
<p>Love<br />
Daniel</p>
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		<title>By: Old Midhurstian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Old Midhurstian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 17:06:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yep that pretty much sums up what hapened to me including my breast pocket with the school badge getting ripped half off. I got the pain, conventionally bare arsed as ever, and was frightened that I was actually capable of nearly killing someone. Basically I lost on all counts and he pretty well won.

God I so loved the 7 years in that hell!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yep that pretty much sums up what hapened to me including my breast pocket with the school badge getting ripped half off. I got the pain, conventionally bare arsed as ever, and was frightened that I was actually capable of nearly killing someone. Basically I lost on all counts and he pretty well won.</p>
<p>God I so loved the 7 years in that hell!</p>
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		<title>By: Micky</title>
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		<dc:creator>Micky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 16:42:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Gosh!  &#039;Have a go Malcolm!&#039;

When I responded to physical violence against me at junior school it resulted in one of my blazer pockets being ripped half off.

The fact that the other boy had started the fisticuffs cut no ice at home where my mother made a bis of a fuss about damage to my uniform and about having to to sew it back on, so my father took me into the front room and spanked me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gosh!  &#8216;Have a go Malcolm!&#8217;</p>
<p>When I responded to physical violence against me at junior school it resulted in one of my blazer pockets being ripped half off.</p>
<p>The fact that the other boy had started the fisticuffs cut no ice at home where my mother made a bis of a fuss about damage to my uniform and about having to to sew it back on, so my father took me into the front room and spanked me.</p>
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